i keep opening and shutting this tab and have been for weeks but finally, hey, hi, how are you, is anyone there?
it's been an obscene amount of time since i last checked this place and read things. i miss it of course, but in the way we miss things that we know have lived their course all the way through. seeing how horrendous my devwatch looks today, i'll be going through all the visual pieces but please leave a comment with written pieces you are most proud of
in return, let's get the boring stuff out of the way. did you know i have an
instagram account specifically for my writing? no? follow me there! if you don't do ig, i have a
facebook page that i'm working on using more in light of my book release,
Home and Other Debris coming out in two months!
2017 has been crazy. i haven't been submitting to magazines or anthologies as much. third year, though the most learning-heavy year in medical school so far, is
kicking my ass. it would've been okay if i wasn't unraveling after years of repressing shit to function but hey, repressers can be choosers, i guess. this year started off with a horrible, horrible realization of the full extent of my PTSD. needed to end that sentence there.
i went to therapy and was disappointed right out. therapy in general, has been the single most exhausting thing i've ever had to do. there were days when i was beaming with the progress i had made and spent a few weeks completely addicted to neuro-hypnotic repatterning. and... i've made a lot of progress. the rage of everything that's happened to me hits me hard sometimes and i've basically given up on the notion that i can have a proper studying schedule with the way my head has been lately. but i'm also learning to accept that it's okay.
if what i was doing to survive wasn't resilience before, it sure is now. i am not heroic to myself in the least. but i do think the broken bits of me are airing themselves out in sunlight for the very first time. instead of shutting the siren under my tongue, i am learning to talk to it and ask what it's so afraid of. some days i treat myself like a child so i have no excuse to neglect myself. others, i learn to hold the child's pinky instead of fussing over them.
i can feel my mental skin stretching inside my cranial vault and it hurts so fucking much some days but that's why they call it growing pains; no part of this was meant to be easy.
don't forget to leave pieces you're proud of in the comments section and follow me on extra-dA sites
until next time, loves.